How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 17.06.2025 00:22
Making more friends is a goal.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Why do I feel so lazy every time I get into my room?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
What was your most embarrassing wardrobe malfunction in public?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
What do women talk about mostly(among themselves)?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Do not set goals—set systems.
Why are Americans obese? Is it the food or is it the psychology?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Why are the democrats keep insisting that there are more than two genders?
What I need from you?
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
What kind of person makes you think "how come there are people like that"?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Can people who have never met you tell if you are a covert narcissist?
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Does not procrastinate.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Do Republicans want to ban books and decide what your kids can and can’t read?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Procrastinates a lot.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
How do the youth in Taiwan perceive their national identity in relation to China?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What is the difference between the terms "Millennials" and "kids"?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Ask yourself:
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
That's it for today.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Why would my nipples hurt when I touch them?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.